What to Include in Your Date Message

Sending a message with your date request is totally optional, but it can be a great way to add a thoughtful or practical touch to your plans.

If you're planning a date that involves outdoor activities—like a walk, pickleball game, or meeting up in a park—this is your chance to clarify details like the exact meeting spot, what to bring, or the vibe you’re going for. Since the date planning system doesn’t allow you to add custom text, the message box gives you the freedom to explain your idea a bit more.

Not sure what to say? Try one of these:

• “Let’s meet near the fountain entrance of the park—I'll bring the paddles!”

• “I figured a walk by the lake might be nice if the weather holds. Sound good?”

Keep it simple, clear, and friendly. Whether you're finalizing details or just adding a personal note, a quick message can go a long way toward creating a smooth and enjoyable first date.